he Ritchie family poses for paparazzi outside Dornoch Cathedral in Scotland following son Rocco's baptism on the eve of their wedding. At the wedding the next day, Rocco wore a miniaturized version of the hunting MacIntosh kilt his dad wore.   The nuptials between Madonna and Guy Ritchie were held under tight security at Skibo Castle, with the material girl dripping with diamonds on loan from Harry Winston.   Wedding guests included Elton John, Sting and his wife Trudie Styler, Donatella Versace , Rupert Everett and Gwyneth Paltrow. Madonna's maid of honor was Stella McCartney, who also designed the wedding dress, along with the long ivory gown worn by Madonna's four-year-old daughter Lourdes, made to match her mom's.   Madonna recently received a belated wedding gift from her new husband. The director has chosen her to star in his next film, a gangster movie called The Mole.