Britney doesn’t want kids back says friend

By Alexandra Heilbron on February 15, 2008 | 45 Comments


Britney Spears carrying her dog to dance rehearsalBritney Spears‘ first husband has told In Touch magazine that the singer does not want custody of her sons. Jason Alexander, a childhood friend whose 55-hour marriage to the pop singer in 2004 was annulled, says Spears has stopped her custody battle to get Sean Preston, two, and one-year-old Jayden James back from her ex-husband Kevin Federline. Alexander, who keeps in touch with Brit, explains: “She wants to see them, but she doesn’t want to be a full-time mom. She said it doesn’t matter if she doesn’t get them back fulltime, and that she can always have other kids later on.” That sounds a bit harsh, but Alexander added, “She isn’t well enough to know what she wants,” explaining that she knows she’s mentally ill. He confided to the mag: “She does want to get better. She doesn’t sound as crazy right now as she did three weeks ago, but she’s not right.”



Comments & Discussion

  1. Nancy • February 15, 2008 @ 7:20 AM

    Now, I really like this wig! It’s actually nice! ‘Grey skies are gonna clear up….put on a happy face’. No wonder why she went BONKERS!! She can’t trust anyone. She couldn’t (and still can’t) trust her parents, her manager, her husband…ex-hubby now, and when she thinks she has a long-time childhood friend that she can confide in, such as Jason Alexander….she no sooner tells him things and he runs and tells the tabloids everything she said!!!

  2. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 8:44 AM

    Good for her, she shouldn’t let kids get in the way of her life.

  3. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 8:45 AM

    Agreed. She can’t keep belting out hits with rugrats in the way.

  4. chris • February 15, 2008 @ 8:49 AM

    I think that is the most sense she had made in months. Good for her for realizing that.

  5. Natasha • February 15, 2008 @ 9:04 AM

    Sounds like she’s come to some realization that there will be consequences to her actions. Namely, custody of the children is not a very realistic expectation given her current mental condition. Perhaps when she gets well her opinion will change. I’m happy that she finally realizes that she needs help and hopefully she will find someone to trust who will help her walk through her recovery. Right now it would be foolish of anyone to accept any serious decisions made out of her emotional turmoil. I really feel for her, it is a very difficult uphill battle for anyone to deal with, let alone a celebrity who is hounded by the paparrazzi.

  6. K-Fed • February 15, 2008 @ 9:34 AM

    That’s good Brit, cuz I ain’t lettin you get em back.

  7. K • February 15, 2008 @ 11:20 AM

    What a f@ckin’ useless beyotch! Kids would be better without her. Like having kids not in her life is going to help revive her career. LOL! She’s never had a career, she a freakin’ joke. She doesn’t write her own music, she has no voice, she lipsinks… In a nutshell, she deep south TPT!

  8. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 11:20 AM

    Father of the year: K-Fed!

  9. Nancy • February 15, 2008 @ 11:55 AM

    Don’t even get me started on that idiot being ‘Father of the year’!!!

  10. K-Fed • February 15, 2008 @ 12:28 PM

    hey, give me my props!

  11. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 1:16 PM

    A leader among men, a corner stone of every community. We should not be envious of K-Fed because he would not want us to be, but we should strive every day to be more and more like him. Amen.

  12. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 2:02 PM

    what happens when k-fed gets k-fed-up with the kids?

  13. TJ • February 15, 2008 @ 2:04 PM

    She is young, and needs help, and she can’t get it with all eye’s on her. Brit needs to leave the spotlight and take a deep breathe and relax for a couple of years. She has enough money, stay out of the spotlight and people will leave you alone. Move out of LA or Holliwood.
    Focus on getting better then you could think about being a good mother to your boys. Your can’t do that if your sick physically and mentally.

  14. Rambo • February 15, 2008 @ 2:48 PM

    in case no-one noticed.. Britney is looney tunes.

    Her dog is cute though.

  15. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 3:58 PM

    I actually feel sorry for her! She destroyed her career!

  16. Daphne • February 15, 2008 @ 4:41 PM

    Well isn’t she lucky – can’t handle the kids get rid of them – too bad all mothers can’t do that when it gets rough.

  17. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 6:47 PM

    Her kids will have a better life without her!! Her children should be the most important thing in her life. NOT HER CAREER, WHATEVER CAREER SHE HAS LEFT.
    If i was the judge i would keep the kids away from her for ever.
    But I do hope she gets better:)

  18. Poppa John • February 15, 2008 @ 7:21 PM

    Yeah, kids can really get in the way of partying, even get in the way when you’re trying to have sex or do drugs(don’t you just HATE that-Stop jumping on the bed when Mommy has a needle in her arm!!!). Or their constant crying because there’s crap in their diapers? Damn that’s annoying!!!! I bet she’s way better off now that her kids are out of the way. As for K-Fed ( I can’t believe I just typed that), It’s a lot easier to look after kids when you are being paid 90 thousand plus-a-month!! He sure didn’t take care of the kids he had with his ex, or even acknowledge them for that matter. Now all of a sudden he’s a freakin’ hero. But that’s how the smoke and mirrors show goes with the press, print one thing one day and the next day they want you to forget and buy into their newest crap. THAT’S how you sell papers!!

  19. Nancy • February 15, 2008 @ 8:25 PM

    Yes, if only we all could just abandon our little darlings when the going gets tough!! You’re right poppa john…my kids keep losing my damn crack pipe and it gets very annoying trying to find it every time I need a hit!! Every time I want to buy a rock, it seems they need food or clothing…it never ends!! Kids always want more and more. The more you give, the more they want. LMAO!

    Oh, where is my award of the year????

  20. Dawn • February 15, 2008 @ 8:32 PM

    OMG are u people really that messed up in the head. Brittney has a problem a medical problem she is mentally ill. If everyone would stop and think about it, the tabloids are actually harmming her more then they think. Not harming her carrier but her mental health. Stop putting her in the press, let get the help she needs. Then she can begin to rebuild her life. Her kids and then her carrier that’s what she really needs. Give it to her,. All my best to you Brit. I really hope u get the help u need before u become another star that dies over drugs.

  21. Nancy • February 15, 2008 @ 8:39 PM

    Why does she need a ‘carrier’???? LMAO!

  22. quinn • February 15, 2008 @ 9:49 PM

    That is shamefull. I feel sorry for the kids when they grow up and find that they were not wanted by their own mother. Shame Shame Shame.

  23. Anonymous • February 15, 2008 @ 11:03 PM

    Both Spears girls are nuts. The 16 yr old is already planning to give up her child so that she can continue her career. Sad.

    K-fed won’t get K-fed-up. He’s hired nannies and hanging around for the money because sooner than later…

    Britney is going to go the way of Anna Nicole Smith.

  24. Arnold • February 16, 2008 @ 8:14 AM

    This Alexander guy is a Slug looking to make a buck from the magazines. They will pay the slug more to beef up the story negatively.

    That line about not being as crazy as she was three weeks ago is a classic though. He must have went to the Tom Cruise course on levels of craziness.
    Wow I can see how this is all beggining to fit together. Yes I can start to put the peices together.

  25. K-Fed • February 16, 2008 @ 8:45 AM

    Leave Jason Alexander alone. He was great on Seinfeld

  26. Delia • February 16, 2008 @ 9:32 AM

    I hope that she gets the help she needs. It’s bad enough when you crash and burn, but when you do it in the spotlight… And when everyone is happy to watch it happen instead of doing something to stop the train wreck you know is coming. She’s to be pitied.

    Hopefully her kids are better off with their Dad and young enough that there will be no lasting scars from this mess.

    As for her parents, this is the first I’ve heard of her father. About damn time you stepped up to the plate. Someone in this family needs to be the “grown up.”

  27. tributegirl • February 16, 2008 @ 10:45 AM

    “It doesn’t matter if she gets them back full time, and she can always have other kids later on”????? wtf kind of comment is that? Seriously, what the h*ll is that? Are her kids just “things” to have, then throw away when she gets bored with them? So if she doesn’t want them, they have to grow up with that hanging over their heads for the rest of their lives, but then if she has other kids and DOES want them, what’s that telling the first two? That they are less important? That they just don’t matter? What is wrong here? She should just get “fixed” and never have any more!

  28. Anonymous • February 16, 2008 @ 3:55 PM

    i relly hop you get better my name is tahjii you need to get your kids back kevin is not a good dad i love you im 11 years old

  29. Nancy • February 16, 2008 @ 5:40 PM

    Kinda sounds like the movie that was her idea and that she starred in….’CROSSROADS’, doesn’t it? The mother left the father and the child behind and got re-married, had more kids and kept those kids. Yeah, I think she truly has gone off the deep end!!!

  30. Nancy • February 16, 2008 @ 8:08 PM

    You know who the REAL fools are? The one’s who think they are f*cking psychiatrists!!! Britney has NOT…I repeat…NOT, been DIAGNOSED with a mental condition. Therefore, we are NOT “thriving on her misery”. As far as I am concerned…until she is diagnosed and locked back in that padded room for more than a couple of days, she’s nothing but a CRACK HEAD!!!!

  31. tributegirl • February 16, 2008 @ 8:28 PM

    Yeah, weird. I noticed one night I replied to one of your comments and they put mine first, that looked weird! Wish this was kind of like an msn format or something so people could post comments to each other in real time, but it would stay so other people could post later.

  32. tributegirl • February 16, 2008 @ 8:40 PM

    Oh, I just noticed it happened again just now when you said you are here, heeheehee, I missed that!

  33. Learn to Spell • February 17, 2008 @ 9:21 AM

    To Dawn on February 15 @ 8:32pm

    I think you mean CAREER not carrier. Completely two different things.

    End of class…

  34. Ed Davis • February 17, 2008 @ 12:29 PM

    It sounds like Britney is coming around. K-Fed clearly wants to be a parent, but the kids are only slowing Britney down. Surely they can work something out…

  35. Anonymous • February 17, 2008 @ 12:33 PM

    What has Jason Alexander done since “Seinfeld?” NOTHING!!!

  36. tributegirl • February 17, 2008 @ 2:30 PM

    Um, I don’t think it’s the same Jason Alexander! Brit has been with some creepy guys, but as far as I’m aware, she has never been with a fat bald guy! But, you just never know, do you?

  37. xray • February 17, 2008 @ 3:12 PM

    why would she want her kids back?

    she might have to wear panties again …

  38. Nancy • February 17, 2008 @ 10:01 PM

    She hasn’t been locked up in a padded room????

  39. Nancy • February 17, 2008 @ 10:02 PM

    And scroll up and look at that face…..THAT….is the face of someone who needs a HIT!!! LMAO

  40. Anonymous • February 17, 2008 @ 11:09 PM

    what she needs is a good whack upside the head!

  41. Anonymous • February 18, 2008 @ 1:56 AM

    the loser who said she cant belt out hits with rugrats in the way needs mental help too. She needs to be fixed so she can NOT have more children….and althought I believe they are better off without her full time, then she should get to be with them part time. Not for her, but the boys need to know their mom, and it will be easier for her to love them without responsibility of motherhood. Sounds crazy, but the boys feelings are all that matter…..

  42. Nancy • February 19, 2008 @ 10:32 AM

    “The loser who said ‘she can’t belt out hits with rugrats in the way’, needs mental help too.”

    Um, I’m pretty sure they were being sarcastic! I know I was being sarcastic in my crack pipe comment. What is a story without a few good laughs???

  43. Anonymous • February 20, 2008 @ 11:58 AM

    Someone who calls someone else a loser on an anonymous message board also needs help.

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