Mel Gibson‘s pregnant mistress, Oksana Grigorieva, 39, says she doesn’t know if Mel is planning to marry her, telling CNN: “We haven’t really talked about it.” (In other words, he’s not marrying her). She admits that hooking up with the still-married devoutly religious Gibson has been a big boost to her singing career, saying, “If you think about it, every talent needs a serious push and help from somebody who is stronger, because it’s pretty much impossible for anybody to succeed in this industry. So I’ve become very lucky, and I’m very grateful.” Gibson has directed four of her music videos and because of her relationship with him, she was interviewed on CNN to promote her album. “You don’t control the situations or the people you meet. I did not plan this,” says Grigorieva, who also has a son with actor Timothy Dalton. Dalton obviously wasn’t as good about promoting his baby mama’s career as Gibson seems to be, considering no one heard of her until now. “I’m just doing what I’ve always been doing. It’s not like I’ve changed my goals at all.” Her goal must have been to get pregnant with a huge star who would show an interest in her career. Second time lucky!