Sandra Bullock’s husband cheated before

Us WeeklyIt looks like tattoo model/stripper Michelle McGee wasn’t the first woman that Jesse James cheated with while married to Oscar-winning actress Sandra Bullock, multiple sources revealed in the new issue of Us Weekly (pictured at left). “This is just the first person who has gone public,” one source told the magazine. Another added, “This is not an isolated incident. When Sandra is away, he gets bored.” They claim that his employees at West Coast Choppers bike shop in Long Beach, California were aware of James’ extramarital affairs. “Everybody knew,” one insider admits, adding that James regularly posted Internet ads looking for “hot, tattooed biker chicks with big boobs.” Another source said, “He sees their photos, answers the ads and invites the girls to his office.” When asked how Bullock could have been married to James for almost five years and not know, an insider explained, “He is a whole other person when they’re together. She was completely duped.”

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  1. D. Clark • March 25, 2010 @ 9:36 AM

    I had respect for Jesse James when he appeared on Celebrity Apprentice and did not use Sandra’s name or her contacts to promote cash donations or further his placement in the game. This, however, is not shocking or surprising but certainly sad.

  2. Edith • March 25, 2010 @ 9:50 AM

    I don’t know why..but the phrase, men are pigs, keeps coming to mind.

  3. Dia • March 25, 2010 @ 9:54 AM

    Did anyone REALLY think that these two actually went together?? One’s got class while the other is an ass.

  4. Emily • March 25, 2010 @ 10:34 AM

    Most men are assholes, Women should put a private detective on the man she is planning to marry, for 2 or 3 months ahead of time to see really what she is getting. Then if she decides to go ahead and marry the jerk, whos to blame. Wake Up Girls.

  5. dina • March 25, 2010 @ 11:17 AM

    Disgusting pig!!!!

  6. John • March 25, 2010 @ 11:18 AM

    I love the man hating going on in here…idiotic blanket statements like “men are pigs” and “most men are assholes”. Jesse James is an idiot, there’s no doubt. He should never have gotten married knowing his tastes. There are a lot of women who cheat on loving husbands and there are women who would use sex as a catapult to 15 minutes of infamy, knowing that the man has a wife and children. So grow up.

  7. Marilyne • March 25, 2010 @ 11:30 AM

    Sandra is too good for him. This must be so hurtful to her as she expressed so much love and trust in him at the Academy Awards. Chin up Sandra! We love you!

  8. JG • March 25, 2010 @ 11:59 AM

    John, nicely said.

  9. Jcvd • March 25, 2010 @ 12:05 PM

    Oh so a smart, funny, down to earth, celebrity wife isn’t enough eh? God~

    Dump that asshole & sue him for emotional damage and get his biker shop already!

  10. annette • March 25, 2010 @ 12:21 PM

    how can we support sandra

  11. kk • March 25, 2010 @ 12:31 PM

    I’m a woman and I totally agree with John. Jesse is a jerk, but I wish everyone would stop the men bashing. If the same white-washing of women was done, there would be such a hue and cry. I can’t see posters getting away with “women are pigs” or “women are sluts.” As John said “Grow up!”

    Bash Jesse all you want, but let’s stop with the blanket statements already.

  12. Laura • March 25, 2010 @ 12:35 PM

    Regardless of what “he” did (and I’m not excusing it), you still have to feel for Sandra’s heart-break and for the kids being torn apart. Now we know why Sandra leads such a private life..too bad it couldn’t have stayed that way – for her peace of mind.

  13. Louise • March 25, 2010 @ 12:58 PM

    Yes, we all agree Jesse is a jerk, but we don’t need to bash men. What about the women that get involved with married men???

  14. Carl • March 25, 2010 @ 1:02 PM

    Is it really anyone’s business other than the involved parties? For God’s sake take care of your own family and let these shallow people of limited intelligence and of no moral values sink into oblivion, an uneducated biker dude?? What has he contributed to society?? Why are you all praying at the altar of dumb ass celebrity? Isn’t it time to get a life and quite spending valuable time and emotion on people you don’t really know and who really couldnt care one iota about you. Spend time with your kids and family or do something of value. GET A LIFE PEOPLE.

  15. Irene • March 25, 2010 @ 1:26 PM

    My heart breaks for Sandra. She was so happy and so in love and then this. She deserves someone who loves her for her – she is such a class act and loves life so much. Jesse, on the other hand, deserves his ‘tattooed’ ….. ladies(?). The poor, poor children deserve none of this. How could he? How dare he put Sandra through this and his children through it…twice. He is not my idea of a ‘good’ father.

  16. Judy • March 25, 2010 @ 1:31 PM

    I totally agree with Louise. What about the women that go after married men? They are just as much to blame! Shame on all cheaters!

  17. reba • March 25, 2010 @ 2:19 PM

    He does not deserve her, and has no respect for marriage or women in general, that is obvious, does not promising mean anything anymore. I feel for her now and give a prayer to her to heal her heart, she said that he made her a better person, Sandra you were always a better person, you dont need someone else to bring that out of you. I am so very sorry and saddened to hear this.

  18. Johnny • March 25, 2010 @ 2:32 PM

    I agree that James is a moron, an idiot and a loser for cheating on his wife, I don’t condone cheating but for all the women who are stereotyping all men into the same category as Jesse James/Tiger Woods and all other cheaters should give their heads a shake….Women cheat too, in fact my ex-wife cheated on me, and believe me I still love women. It sucks that it happened, but it happened and you deal with it and you move on. Bottom Line, men and women are both guilty of cheating…

  19. Sol • March 25, 2010 @ 3:05 PM

    Geez, Mother Nature makes promiscuity in men an evolutionary advantage (i.e. spreading our genes), and then we get in crap for following our genetic impulses. When are you women going to grow up and realize we can’t be tamed? You should be happy if we make it home a few times a week – monogamy is against our nature.

  20. TM • March 25, 2010 @ 3:19 PM

    SOL… are you on crack or simply a 2000 year old Neanderthal who has not yet hit the first tenet of evolution? Your brethren are trying to set the man-haters on this string straight and your goal seems geared to egg them on. I’d warn against the spread of your genes for fear of producing children who can scratch their knees without bending down.

    Jesse is a deviant. Plain and simple. Like him. Sandra is better off without him.

  21. GDJ • March 25, 2010 @ 3:23 PM

    There’s an old saying that goes: “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, I’m a friggin’ idiot.” Sandra didn’t know of his extra-marital affairs before this? Really? If you’ve ever seen that guy on his TV show, you would’ve seen this coming. She’s a great actress though.

  22. jennifer • March 25, 2010 @ 3:26 PM

    He should change his name to Jessie Shames!

  23. SYLVIA • March 25, 2010 @ 3:26 PM

    When men like Jesse and Tiger mess around with this type of woman, who knows what kind of diseases they are exposed to, lucky no one got Aids or hepatitis. Also surprising enough, no convenient and money making pregnancies. And Jesse’s daughter is the one with the biggest loss. Porn star mom and a dad who can’t behave, Sandra was the best thing that ever happened to her.

  24. LCJ • March 25, 2010 @ 3:31 PM

    Sandra is such an amazing woman! To be treated like this and thrown to press while on tour without warning is terrible. I wish her all the best, and hope that she can overcome this believing she is truly worth more than that idiot can give her.

    I feel sorry for the children, they are always the ones hurt the most, and as they are innocent bystanders.

    Men bashing is not appropriate at anytime .. you can always find something negative to say about people why not try to help and stay with the positive people. I pray she overcomes this humility with the grace she is so capable of. I also hope she knows how loved and treasured she truly is.

    Heartfelt prayers go to you Sandra.

    A Canadian Fan

  25. Zana • March 25, 2010 @ 3:38 PM

    Starting to see a pattern here…

    Sandra wins Best Actress…Jesse is found to be cheating…

    Reese wins Best Actress…bye bye Ryan…

    Halle wins Best Actress…bye bye Eric…

    Just sayin’…

  26. Sol • March 25, 2010 @ 4:00 PM

    Sorry TM, as someone with a pretty good set of genes (e.g. intelligent, good family health history), I know it’s my duty to the species to go out and combine those genes with as many women as I can. Donating sperm is a good first step, but not nearly as fun.

  27. Wendy • March 25, 2010 @ 4:09 PM

    Our moral bank-account in this country is close to being bankrupt!!

  28. Laura • March 25, 2010 @ 4:13 PM

    We never really know what goes on behind closed doors but Sandra Bullock is one of the few stars that have touched our hearts. We see her as a human not a “star” and we all hurt for her right now. Betrayal cuts you to the core regardless of sex. I’m hurting right along with her right now and I hope the press will give her some breathing room and privacy to deal with the emotional fall-out that accompanies such a breach of trust.

  29. Susan • March 25, 2010 @ 4:20 PM

    There is no excuse for stupidity. Remember life is all about choices and in choosing you reap what you sow – it’s the law of the universe.

  30. Traci • March 25, 2010 @ 4:49 PM

    Don’t believe everything you’ve read. You’re bashing a man without ANY real information. You’re all getting involved in someone’s private life without any regard that YOU are the ones who feed the very media who print this garbage because it SELLLS!!! Do you give a crap when you hear a man down the street cheated on the woman down the street that you DO NOT KNOW??? If you do, you’re the kind of nosey neighbor I avoid. No wonder Sandra Bullock, leads a private life, whom I do not know, therefore I have NO idea if she’s a good person or not, and either do you. All we know is the characters she’s played are sweet….she may very well be, but I’m just pointing out so may Jesse, no one knows. And as for bashing men, I’m a chick, loooove men, hate the way most women treat their men, nagging, nosey, whining, controlling joykills, no wonder men run around propogating the forests, not because their genetics drive them their, but their nagging wives do. Figure it out ladies, maybe it’s not too late to avoid such humiliating sympathy in your community. As for Sandra and Jesse’s marriage, well I’d wish them luck and pretend to care, but I really don’t give a crap, they’re strangers to me and I have no information other than what I’m told by trashy media….. Shame on you!!!

  31. RK • March 25, 2010 @ 5:05 PM

    a lot of hurt, burned women on here.

  32. Mike • March 25, 2010 @ 5:59 PM

    Good job John!
    Jesse sounds like a jerk and it’s to bad this ended this way. They were such mis-matches, I kind of hoped it would work out because it’s so different then a typical hollywood agent and publicist made couple!
    As for poor Sandra. I love the woman….great actress, seems like an amazing person, but none of us have any real idea what she is like away from the camera. Did she deserve this, no, but to just assume she’s a great person and Jessie is an a-hole is a pretty broad statement, with no real proof.
    He cheated, he needs to take the blame for that. But there are PLENTY of women out there that do the exact same thing, and nothing ever gets said about it. Instead it gets turned into ‘well the man likely did something to her, to make her stray’. A little ironic isn’t it!

  33. Traci • March 25, 2010 @ 5:59 PM

    When a relationship comes to an end, for whatever reason, it’s best to focus on what YOU did wrong so you can become a better person and find a more rewarding relationship. Men cheat because they can. So do women. Instead of cutting the man down, dispose of him like HE (not men, but just HE) deserves to be then figure out what YOU did to contribute to the breakdown so YOU don’t repeat it. Instead of just being a man bashing victim. C’mon ladies, we’re responsible for our own happiness and if we make our men miserable, hell there’s always a woman out there who will stroke his ego….amongst other things. Don’t hate, participate 🙂

  34. MR • March 25, 2010 @ 6:01 PM

    Some NICE GIRLS are attracted to BAD BOYS … unfortunately, because they are NICE GIRLS… they can’t just enjoy the shrill and thrill … and move on… they go and marry the guy… that’s when it goes down hill because NICE GIRLS stay NICE (frustrating the guy to no end – hoping she’ll be BAD too at some point…at least in the bedroom) … Sandra is not the one for Jesse… (she must have known deep down…she can’t be Jesse’s Bad Girl)… not surprised …is anyone? Sandra’s nice girl, nice step mom lifestyle was just too nice..

  35. cindy • March 25, 2010 @ 6:16 PM

    Wow……I am surprised how everything went to a whole new level. Good luck sandra!

  36. michelle • March 25, 2010 @ 6:25 PM

    What Sandra needs is the badge of courage.One minute your on top of the mountain and the next your in the valley.That’s life.Bad things happen to good people.Carry on!

  37. SMF • March 25, 2010 @ 6:38 PM

    SOL I’m with TM, you’re a chump.

  38. TTA • March 25, 2010 @ 7:00 PM

    wow… so many sexist comments… sure the guy’s an asshole for what he did, but women are NO better. both cheat.

  39. Rene • March 25, 2010 @ 7:55 PM

    Him cheating is not shocking at all after considering his personality and just being the way he is..
    The Shock for me was when I heard Sandra was getting together with him in the first place. Who did she think she was getting? Maybe he was even better at acting than she was.

  40. Another Nancy • March 25, 2010 @ 8:09 PM

    It is obvious he “married up” and can’t fit in so he should go back to the low life characters he is use to. It is just too bad he had to break such a nice woman’s heart.

  41. grannyone • March 25, 2010 @ 8:27 PM

    I also had a husband like this. Met him, knew about his bad boy rep and believed him when he said he finally met the woman who he would spend his life with and have kids with. Felt like I had met my soulmate. No one more surprised than me when he took off 5 years later with a woman 20 years younger than me and covered with tatoos. A woman who had lost her own 2 children to the Childrens Aid. When I tracked him down his first words were “you knew all about me, who I really was, when you met me. Why are you surprised”. Duh, 10 years later it has been a hard lesson to learn. Kids need stability and finances to raise. Been real tough. Nothing but sympathy to Sandra, guys like this live for the con.

  42. grannyone • March 25, 2010 @ 8:36 PM

    what you see, what you hear, what they admit is the life they have been living is the absolute truth. what they say will be different from now on is just window dressing. Especially when they tell you that YOU are the part of them getting in the right place in the world. lOOK IN THE MIRROR, you are not pretty enough, rich enough, smart enough, or connected enough to make them change their ways. Run, dont even look back. If you are not sure, ask your minister, your neighbour, your mom, your best friend, anyone who will give you an honest opinion. Not sure, then dump them and watch how quickly they hook up with another woman just like you, who really understands him. Breathe deep and relax that you got away.

  43. mandee • March 25, 2010 @ 10:00 PM

    “When Sandra is away, he gets bored.” ?!?!? seriously?!?! try acting like a MAN and grow the hell up !!! its disgusting that none of the people that knew he was a man whore could have been bothered to tell sandra while she raised his f-in child as her own. people make me sick.

    John on March 25, 2010 11:18 AM i agree.

    Johnny on March 25, 2010 2:32 PM sorry to hear about your wife 🙁

    Sol on March 25, 2010 3:05 PM its people like YOU that make everyone lose faith in men. men and women both “NEED” to have sex, men and women are both simply animals but not EVERY man or EVERY woman feels the need to become a whore. you should definitely not be allowed to procreate.

    TM on March 25, 2010 3:19 PM hahaha lmfao.

    Laura on March 25, 2010 4:13 PM i agree with you completely, very nicely said.

    MR on March 25, 2010 6:01 PM how can you assume what sandra might be like in bed? for all you know she may even be TOO kinky for him! just because someone is nice or comes off as a nice, good person doesnt mean they are. she could be a serial killer, or she could be into whips and chains and handcuffs and hot candle wax and torture. everyone has 2 personalities, the personality they use for every day things and the personality they use in the bedroom…sandra actually probably has 3, counting the one she uses on screen.

    grannyone on March 25, 2010 8:27 PM sorry to hear about this 🙁 i dont intend on getting married lmfao, i enjoy being single, i plan on being inseminated.

  44. Giselle • March 25, 2010 @ 10:13 PM

    Sandra is one of the most beautiful and famous woman in the world. Jesse James was lucky to have her and to even have her look at him. It is too bad that there are children involved. This was their best chance in having a descent life. I feel real sad for Sandra because she did get close to the kids. That is real class Sandra and you deserve the best. Jesse James deserves whatever is coming to him. Thinking of you and wishing you the best in the next few months to come.

  45. J-P • March 25, 2010 @ 10:14 PM

    Good Job Jesse, Keep riding chick’s like that…that the way it is !!!!!
    Bullock best actress..not for me !!

  46. Sara • March 25, 2010 @ 10:44 PM

    My heart bleeds for Sandra. She is so great and she doesn’t deserve this kind of treatment.

  47. Doris • March 25, 2010 @ 10:47 PM

    I feel so sorry for Sandra she’s such a beautiful ,warm and classy lady. And it wasn’t hard to see she was so in love with the guy to bad he didn’t feel the same way . He deserves the Bimbo with the tatoo’s and big boobs, lets hope he did’nt give Sandra any thing that medcare does’nt fix ,as my husband says. Keep your chin up and God bless Sandra.

  48. Chuck • March 26, 2010 @ 12:08 AM

    Wow.. Traci, and John some good points.
    #1.. all of the information is in the Public domain , and media types spin facts into fiction. So sometimes half baked Truths.

    #2 I have not heard Sandra , in the media berating Jesse. There has been no comment. Now that seems to be on the Mature side , wouldn’t you agree?
    Consider this, it is a concious decision to pursue such a public career, A public life has Public scruitinty..
    Politicians too , are forever under the public eye of scrutiny.. Which in itself.. can apply a lot of pressure on people/relationships.
    .
    3. For sure, the point of a relationship ending, very good point deal with the other persons transgression, but then analyze our self- What did “I” Do to contribute to this. So.. Was Sandra’s job, a pressure on the relationship? Away for long periods of time, working hard, etc. Yes For sure.. And how about Jesse.. was his lifestyle, job/work at odds to being in a monogomus relationship? Or for sure.
    For example this is just a microcosim of society. Why make such a big deal about it? Why do I say that? Well it’s a well know fact.. Welders who are away from home , have many girlfriends on the road and marriages often suffer. Long haul truck Drivers is another one, Away from home, for extended time,, and many of them have Multiple relationships… another area.. Police – They too -often have failed marriages due to never being at home etc. Sometimes the wife has multiple affairs .
    So think about it.. If you were surrounded on a daily basis with the typical hollywood crowd, (babes, glamor queens,paprazi,money leaches, etc)How many of US are in that Nonreal world with intense scrutiny ?).. And furthermore, we have all sinned sometime in our life, How would we FEEL, if our own dirty laundry was aired on National TV Etc? Further more.. we don’t know the private business between these two people. I have never read that Jesse was a “Devoute” Christian, and followed a certain moral compass.. Quite on the other side, He has his own Code, Wild side of life, Chop shop, big and loud Bikes, Tatoos, and everything that goes with it. So basically why are we surprised, he is living a lifestyle according to the “VALUES” of that Racket. He’s not living a life According to the values of the “Cleaver Family”.
    So why don’t the papers, mags,and news programs spend some time and energy on real issues that matter, like Political reform , or helping the sick in Haiti, or lending a hand to returning war vets, and the list goes on. GET A LIFE ( I say in closing). Chuck

  49. buddy • March 26, 2010 @ 12:15 AM

    Traci … you’re wrong in assuming most wives are the cause for their husbands running around. Or, as you specifically state in your comment that men run around because they don’t get what they want or that their wife whines all the time, doesn’t give them sex or nags too much! I’m a prime example of what a man shouldn’t do, and that is CHEAT! I had the trust and complete love of a beautiful (inside and out) wife for 17 years. We had tried to have children for 12 of those years .. when it was determined that I was the cause of the infertility, know what I did, I went out and slept with women (never done it before in my life)! I had to prove to myself that, just because I couldn’t have kids, I was still a man. All this did was destroy a lifetime love. She tried in earnest to move past my infidelity, however, because of my lies and outright statements of telling her that she was crazy ~ she could never “rebuild” the trust in me again. All I know, sadly, is that she never did have a child and wherever she may be in this world, I truly hope she found it in her heart to open up and love again. And, if she did, that man is one lucky fellow! So ya see Traci, not every man cheats due to sex, nagging or whining ~ this holds true for a women.

  50. Robert McDowell • March 26, 2010 @ 3:11 AM

    I agree with Teri in away that is we do not know for sure that Jesse did what peop;e are saying. I know that people for some reason tell story about people and they think it is right. I had the same thing happen in my life, I move my family to a small town from a larger one than it start if I wasseen with a woman or talking to them I was p[utting them to bed and most of the woman were question me about my wife who they knew and my kids. we finally dicora because she could not take anymore. But I hope I two of them sit down with someone and talk it out put all on the table and maybe they can safe their marrier.

  51. Sol • March 26, 2010 @ 8:42 AM

    I think you’re wrong buddy – just because you’ve got your story doesn’t mean that it’s the norm. Biologically programmed urges and nagging, boring, asexual wives are the prime causes of men cheating. I’ve never felt like running out and sleeping with another woman right after I’ve had sex with my spousal equivalent, so as long as she does her job and keeps me satisfied, she’s got nothing to worry about.

    Good on you Jesse – you hit a home run way out of your league, and then you still had the cajones to look after yourself when she went running off out of town for months on end for her “career” – too bad she had to find out.

  52. Little John • March 26, 2010 @ 8:50 AM

    After i split with my first wife of 16 years, i to was a player and had a good time.when i met my current wife of 10 years she knew i was a player.but i live the rule DO ONTO OTHERS HAS YOU EXPECT OTHERS DO ONTO YOU.I never cheated on my first or second wife.
    SO QUIT ALL THE MAN BASHING and put the blame where deserved. Jesse your a jerk and deserve all the crap you get and i hope you lose everything. I kmow you lost my respect and i will never watch another show with you in it.Unless its your court case when you lose it all.
    Sandra you deserve better,there are some good guys out thier that would be proud to be your partner and treat you and your children to the respect you deserve

  53. Traci • March 26, 2010 @ 9:13 AM

    Buddy, I wasn’t implying that men cheat because of their wives, I was saying it’s alot easier to blame the cheater than to realize what you contributed to it….anyone can cheat, man or woman, but we long ago stopped treating our partners with love, adoration and respect and I’ve watched great relationships turn into miserable responsibities lacking the lustre that the beginning once held, we may not like it but we have to “work” on our relationships, and nagging, bitching and complaining is not going to do it. I GUARANTEE if anyone who’s been cheated on really evaluates it, they’d find all their mistakes that led to it, by that time it’s too late, once a cheater always a cheater, move on, but RECOGNIZE where you went wrong if you want to improve your life.

    And yes to a certain degree we DO have to “take care” of our partners, womens’ rights and movement aside, there is no shame in spoiling your man and treating him like gold and sharing in PLENTY of sex, everywhere, spontaneously, rivetting, hot, make him begging for more kind of sex…..I’ve never been cheated on, can only imagine what it must feel like, I’ve also never cheated, I’ve always treated my men very well and have always had a healthy sexual appetite, it’s not a chore, it’s a privelege lol (dated two long term, married to a third for ten years)and I work out of town, 4 weeks at a time and my man talks to me every night, loves me when I’m back then he works out of town, we both please eachother from close and afar, I love loving my man, and never make him miserable, I have to no right to do so, no desire to do so and wouldn’t do anything to create the demise of my happiness. So that’s all I meant, we have to take responsibility for our own happiness, perhaps Sandra created her own destiny, maybe not, I have no idea, nor do you.

  54. Minerva • March 26, 2010 @ 9:17 AM

    Sol is the type responsible for the spread of STD’s and love crimes. No scruples. No morals. No ability to love someone. Needs to marry someone who goes home with any man who looks at her and find out what it feels like. Needs to experience deep, genuine emotional pain cause by the actions of someone else, but is hardly possible for someone who is unable to truly feel love for someone. Needs to grow up, become a responsible adult.

  55. BizzyBody • March 26, 2010 @ 9:22 AM

    It takes a woman nine months to have a baby. It takes a man just one day to be able to impregnate several women. This is the reason men can be replaced by sperm banks, and indeed, they should be.

  56. Sol • March 26, 2010 @ 9:41 AM

    Not true Bizzy, still need us to make deposits in those sperm banks – and lest you forget, that whole process, and pretty much everything else we take for granted, was invented, built and implemented by a man. And don’t try to call me a sexist – I love women and know you have many enviable qualities that more men should have – but the facts are the facts, and for whatever reason it has taken a man’s mind to invent, well, just about everything. Be very thankful for us.

  57. Samantha Lauzon • March 26, 2010 @ 10:41 AM

    First SHAME on you all! While Jesse may have come forward and said “Some of the allegations were true” until the words come out of anyones mouth as to what happend. All this is a magazine with some “unnamed sources who spoke on the request of anonymity”

    Sandra’s a huge star and her star is rising further with her Oscar win! Let’s focus on her performance in “The Blind Side” and leave the bad stuff for another day. We’ve all had unhealthy relationships. Everyone of us! However unlike her it’s not thrown across the world via web/tv/gossip like it’s some sorta juicy snack.

    The connected because the old saying “Opposites attract” and while filming her Barbara Walters special she said “We are more alike then you know” do we know her personally? Do you? Do I? No we know what the media and her publicist have allowed us to know.

    If you were going through a huge divorce/seperation, would you want to discuss it? To a huge group of friends? Well that’s basically it but instead of admitting it to friends, she’s admitting it to the media vultures who are swarming around her home trying to get the “first” bite of a real story!

    Jesus people today make me sick!

  58. Phyllis Kramer • March 26, 2010 @ 12:29 PM

    It’s an unfortunate situation for both – from what I can read Jesse was thrilled to boost his ego and have someone who is not a biker interested in him. He tired to meet her standards but it takes a genuine person to jump from one class to another and try as he did he was not able to stay there, his loss. Once a cheat always a cheat so dump him…..

  59. Whatever • March 26, 2010 @ 3:57 PM

    EXACTLY! but men and women do the same they both cheat on each other, but have you ever seen photos of “Jesse James”?,Have you noticed how he NEVER smiles when he is with Sandra? He feels guilty That’s why he never smiles, i just can’t believe how dumb Sandra was to marry an Asshole. And like i said Men and women cheat on each other so don’t hate! the whole reason was because he was greedy and Sandra didn’t notice.

  60. Missy R.I. • March 26, 2010 @ 4:58 PM

    I don’t know you Sandra, I only love your work! But if this is true about your husband, keep your head up and take all the time you need to heal. You have always displayed nothing but the up most class and it would be so easy for me to say you are to good for him but, only you can make that dicision. You are in my prayers and I wish well and happiness.

  61. mandee • March 26, 2010 @ 5:04 PM

    Sol on March 26, 2010 8:42 AM “Ive never felt like running out and sleeping with another woman right after Ive had sex with my spousal equivalent, so as long as she does her job and keeps me satisfied, shes got nothing to worry about.” it is NEVER a womans job to SATISFY her husband, in the same way its not a mans job to satisfy his wife. they do it because they WANT to and like or love the person they are with, NOT because its expected of them and NOT because they are worried he will cheat on her. its funny you say that youve never felt like it “right after ive had sex” what about the rest of the time? are you a disgusting horn dog that looks for women he can sleep with when youre NOT having sex? also, to imply that men are the only ones that invent things and that we should be happy for them and to act like men is the superior species, think about this, without a woman carrying a son in her belly, giving birth to him, raising him, loving him, praising him, encouraging him to do his best in whatever he does etc. then it clearly would have ended up being a woman that invented everything. men are good for only one thing, impregnating women. in a time when women and men are considered equal (and women cheat too, so whats your reasoning for that? do you men nag, become asexual or do whatever your other stupid reasons are for men cheating on women?) for you to think YOU are superior just because you have a penis is ridiculous. i wish your wife would cheat on you, then we would have a good discussion here.

    Samantha Lauzon on March 26, 2010 10:41 AM i didnt read your entire comment, just the end and i cant help but wonder, do you think that jesus would be “sick” of YOU today for being so intolerant of others rights to an opinion? lol.

  62. deMamaBee • March 26, 2010 @ 5:26 PM

    Its really sad when love and marriage doesn’t translate into trust and fidelity for some people. Its simply apalling that a marriage partner would sleep around knowing not only the emotional risk to the partner and kids but the health risks as well.
    Sandra is another casualty of the belief that marriage means monogamy and trust. From what I’ve seen in recent years those values are seriously on the decline and the word Love s thrown around so casually that it is difficult to interpret the true feelng.

  63. Mary • March 26, 2010 @ 5:49 PM

    Carl Your comments said it all.(March 25/10)

  64. LESLEY • March 26, 2010 @ 6:50 PM

    This man is totally disgusting. I hope she never has anything further to do with him. What a piece of work.
    No different than Tiger……

  65. Charles Darwin • March 26, 2010 @ 7:28 PM

    A great saying is “The pot calling the kettle black.” A marriage needs stimulation (whether it be intellectual or sexual) to thrive. What happens when one party is absent for not days or weeks but months on end? What happens when one party puts their needs ahead of their significant other and abandon the vows or promises of together forever and for better or worse. Jesse looked elsewhere for stimulation and he’s bad, no need to dweel but here is the kicker. 1998..Two If By Sea starring Sandra…Nova Scotia, Sandra, then 34, dating Matthew McConaughey, he breaks up with her and immediately dates someone else but why? Could it have been a night at JJ Rossy in Halifax with a 20 year old Dalhousie student? Why would Matthew leave someone who acts and plays the lovable, innocent character?
    Men have an innate need to spread their DNA with young women with child bearing qualities “Evolutionary prespective” but the female side to that is women seek out robust, strong, virile men to protect and provde for them ensuring their offspring will be provided for and strong. Women have innate needs and most are not published or make it to the headlines. Something about stones and glass houses is good right about now isn’t it? Thank you to those with the willingness to comment on other people’s trying times and bashing men based on media sensationalism and a one-sided mentality. We have two ears and one mouth so we listen twice as much before we speak. Apparently man bashers have twice the mouth due to being deaf and dumb while being brutually opinionated armed with half the story.

  66. SQ • March 26, 2010 @ 7:32 PM

    All I can say is “Hope Floats”. If you haven’t seen it, watch it, if you have seen it, you know what I’m talking about.

  67. Peggy Fabrizi • March 26, 2010 @ 9:35 PM

    What is wrong with men today. They had the most beautiful women at their sides and they cheat on them. I’m not sure what is going on any more with these men. If you can’t be faithful and you know it. Please don’t lead these women on. Don’t get MARRIED!!

  68. Sheri • March 26, 2010 @ 9:41 PM

    Little John is THE MAN on this board. He was a player, but married twice and didn’t cheat during marriage. Sol has no brains or logic but only a narcissistic (self-serving) attitude. He says he’s intelligent, but no you aren’t if you condone cheating and ignoring wedding vows in which a persons vows to be faithful. Yes, to make a mistake is one thing, but to condone that someone like James is only being a man and so cheating is okay is making self-serving excuses for behaving badly without integrity!

    Thanks for your comment, Little John. And John before was right that we shouldn’t blanket all men as cheaters — but really it’s difficult 🙂 Still all women aren’t stripper bimbos who sleep with married celebs to try and get money either! I’m not like that and wouldn’t want to be lumped in with those bimbos.

    Also, people saying that we don’t know what is true, we don’t know how Sandra really is or how James really is. Yes, but we can compare things that are proven FACTS. Fact 1: James has had sexual harassment lawsuits before. 2. He apologized publicly for the cheating allegations and admitted at least some of it is true. 3. Sandra had said that James’ 6 year old daughter, Sunny, was like her own to her after she helped Jesse get custody when James’ ex wife (yet another tattooed stripper)when to jail for 6 months for tax evasion.

    And anyone who condones anything Nazi IS a big time loser! TMZ says they saw a photo in which James is wearing a military hat like mistress Michelle “Bombshell” who wears one with a swastika armband in a photo. In James’ photo that is being bidded on now (sick), he is said to be making a Nazi salute. “Bombshell” also has a swastika tattoo on her stomach.)The public release of Jesse’s photo is going to be next up in this scandal apparently, but there may be another mistress — up to #4 now — too, who knows? Mistress #4 has hired lawyer Gloria Alred. Oh brother…

  69. Ava • March 26, 2010 @ 10:07 PM

    @John on March 25, 2010 11:18 AM

    I am a woman and I concur with what you wrote.

  70. Sue • March 28, 2010 @ 4:58 AM

    Good One John! You’re right, not all men are cheating a**holes…There are women out there that are just as bad if not worse, with absolutely no morals when it comes to married men what-so-ever.

  71. Nancy • March 28, 2010 @ 10:06 PM

    Didn’t even read this one nor it’s comments….just had enough. Too repetitive.

  72. Nancy • March 28, 2010 @ 10:07 PM

    Maybe I’ll check back in a week or two.

  73. preciouslady • March 29, 2010 @ 1:14 PM

    I feel that cheaters are on both sides and that is a shame but its women or men that are so insecure with themselves they are jealous of what they cant come by honestly themselves that they search out to take another persons mate thous are the sluts and degenerates that should be cast stones at KARMA to thoughs sluts that did this to Sandra’s life, girl your beautiful and talented though girls were desprate to make names for themselves by spreading their dirty legs and James was to blind to see what he already had and what a disapointment But Its himself he has to live with. James lost a true treasure for trash KARMA will hit him in his @#!%

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