Rihanna & Chris Brown plan vacation together

By Alexandra Heilbron on September 9, 2009 | 42 Comments


chris_brown_rihannaRihanna and Chris Brown are planning to fly to Mexico for a shared vacation, according to Star magazine. Brown has been banned from seeing Rihanna for five years, but the court order can only be enforced within the United States. “They spoke to their lawyers to see what was allowed and are now planning two weeks in Mexico,” a source said. “They want to spend some quality time together and know they have a lot to reconcile before they can make their relationship public again. Rihanna’s desperate not to let her fans down as she’s had such support from them. She and Chris need to have a long hard think about a strategy that won’t hurt their careers.” Brown recently told Larry King on CNN that he doesn’t remember the assault that left Rihanna’s face battered and bruised, although he later corrected that statement, saying he does remember it, but was tired of answering the question. [Poll=135]



Comments & Discussion

  1. Jo-Anne • September 9, 2009 @ 3:13 PM

    “and know they have a lot to reconcile before they can make their relationship public again.”

    man, happy to see it was kept so…..private?

  2. Andy • September 9, 2009 @ 5:06 PM

    Will make a great reality tv show pitch “When Chris Brown Attacks.”

  3. mandee • September 9, 2009 @ 10:00 PM

    joanne, my exact thoughts when i read that phrase !

    andy oh man laughing out loud for sure. your comment is hilarious.

    someone needs to smack this girl…oh wait, someone already did. >.> man, i hate stupid women. i cant even believe this crap, they should both be charged because they are conspiring to go against the courts order of them being away from each other for five years.

  4. Carol • September 9, 2009 @ 10:08 PM

    Ok, what happened here? Is this girl insane? or is she doing what so many abused women do, let the shame shift back on them and feel guilty for maybe hurting him. I know it is not the way it is, but a lot of women think that way, and just want things to work. Not sure what it will take for her to learn, but I guess everyone has to have their limit. I hope she doesn’t expect any sympathy from her fans…she should serve as a role model for battered women, getting out, speaking against, but if this is true, she is letting them down.

  5. demigod • September 10, 2009 @ 2:59 AM

    She obviously feels she was part to blame. Lets face it, she doesn’t deserve better.

  6. Winn • September 10, 2009 @ 10:11 AM

    Go Breezy – play pimp!!

  7. Nancy • September 11, 2009 @ 10:27 AM

    I agree with you, Carol.

    Demigod: Nothing you say surprises me. Always the same old sexist crap.

    Every law has it’s loopholes.

  8. burst your bubble • September 11, 2009 @ 11:27 AM

    Nancy, why is Demigod’s comment “sexist crap” (whatever that means)? I interpret the comment to mean that she has control over her actions, and if she chooses to go back to him, then she deserves what she gets. I would have thought you would agree with that. But maybe I am interpreting Demigod’s comment wrong?

    Regardless, I do believe people can change and learn from their mistakes. I don’t believe that everyone who loses control over their emotions and hits another person is automatically a manipulative, control-seeking spouse abuser. (And I don’t think it matters whether the person who is hit is a spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, acquaintance, or stranger.) I’m not saying what Chris Brown did isn’t wrong, and I’m not saying he definitely isn’t an abusive person, but without knowing him as a person, and what led up to the incident, and how he truly feels about it and is willing to do about it (such as therapy), I don’t think it is right to say he can’t change.

  9. mandee • September 11, 2009 @ 11:50 PM

    given the amount of damage done to rihannas face ALONE (remember, this is not including the humility, the possible loss of her singing career because he could have damaged her vocal cords, the emotional damage that ONE INCIDENT ALONE would have inflicted upon rihanna) is enough to prove that this wasnt a ONE TIME occurrence. generally when someone hits their spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend MORE THAN ONCE it means they are abusive and there is, more than likely, no changing who they are or what theyve become. i do, personally of course, agree with her deserving anything that happens to her from chris brown from this point forward. she is well aware of (and capable of understanding the seriousness of) chris browns character and personality flaws. if shes willing to let him hit her, i feel no sympathy.

  10. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkRxjrlgzp0&feature=channel • September 12, 2009 @ 1:15 AM

    I’m just commenting on the article, trying to please you Nance haha.
    Can you EVER interpret ANYTHING ANYONE says CORRECTLY?? Are you ‘challenged’? If so, maybe take Megan Fox’s lead and admit to having mental problems (See? I’m commenting on another article!) Getting past the denial is the first step..loong way to go.
    Anyways, back to the article after being so rudely interrupted..so yea, he’s trash she’s trash..they deserve each other. End of story.

  11. demigod • September 12, 2009 @ 1:17 AM

    That’s me above folks..

  12. Nancy • September 12, 2009 @ 4:38 PM

    burst your bubble: I would NEVER think that someone who chooses to stay “deserves” it. I can’t believe that you and other people out there, would say things like “I don’t think it is right to say he can’t change” without knowing him as a person or what sparked this incident, how he feels about it and what he intends to do about it but yet condemn her and say she “deserves what she gets” for staying with him. I don’t care if she stays with him and he beats her for 20 years…it is NEVER her fault and she doesn’t EVER deserve it. He’s the one with the problem. Do I think she needs counselling for self-esteem issues? Sure, but the abuse is on him and if you and others are willing to give him the benefit of the doubt that “maybe he can change”…well, maybe someday SHE will change and kick his @$$ to the curb.

    Demigod (or whatever name, website or code you want to put in the name slot – hahaha): I interpret things just fine and no, I’m not “challenged”…are you? I’m glad that you are “getting past the denial” and finally putting a comment in about the articles here and there, LMAO. Doesn’t help though when you only take 1 step forward and 2 steps back. You said (about the article) that “she doesn’t deserve better”…maybe you will have a daughter or granddaughter someday and she’ll get what she “deserves”…however good or bad. I wonder what your judgement will be then.

  13. demigod • September 13, 2009 @ 3:46 AM

    Damn right she deserves it! Words/actions/behaviour/verbal abuse on her part can be as hurtful/damaging as any physical abuse. She’s a b!tch, he’s a brute, both have anger issues -they belong together. Period.
    If I had kids, they wouldn’t be trash.

  14. gypsy • September 13, 2009 @ 12:51 PM

    demig Seems to me that you have some really deep-seeded anger issue’s yourself, maybe you should work on them!!! As for your last sentence,do you have a formula to make the perfect child? If so, you should patent it,it would make ya a millionaire. If and when you do have children, you’ll see when they reach a certain age you can’t do muckenfuch about the way they choose to live their lives!!!Perhaps you should take off those rose colored glass’s and view the real world as it is,and not as you would like it to be!!!!! No one deserves to be abused whether it be female or male,in my opinion!!

  15. Jo-Anne • September 13, 2009 @ 2:47 PM

    hopefully the “real world” expresses themselves just a step or two different than the above…

  16. Nancy • September 13, 2009 @ 3:59 PM

    Ah yes, more proof…that gypsy is in your “little black book” too. “But, demigod never ever agrees with anything that Nancy says so, I won’t even acknowledge that I just read what he wrote because, as long as it is totally against Nancy, that is ALL that matters!”

  17. Nancy • September 13, 2009 @ 4:00 PM

    Next line:

    “It’s not all about you, Nancy, so get over yourself!”

    Hahaha

  18. demigod • September 13, 2009 @ 4:45 PM

    They’re representative of a culture of trash. If you can’t see that, you’re the one wearing said glasses.
    Yes, I have A formula. One ingredient is called RESPECT, in which they both lack in themselves and their relationship, in spite of their overblown egos. The black community -especially, sure uses terms like ‘respect’ ‘peace’ loosely.
    Gypsy, ask Nance if Chris deserves to be abused haha

  19. Nancy • September 13, 2009 @ 5:13 PM

    Hahaha, you can teach kids to “respect” themselves and others until you are blue in the face but, it doesn’t always mean that they WILL respect themselves and others. I mean, a bad seed had to have started somewhere, didn’t it? It’s kind of similar to ‘which came first, the chicken or the egg?’. How do you know that Rihanna has “anger issues”? I’m just asking. I’m not saying that she does or that she doesn’t. I don’t know. I’ve only read about Chris beating her that night. Do I “think Chris deserves to be abused”? Here’s what I think: Chris needs some serious help. I don’t think he will change much and the reason WHY I think this is because he can’t even flat out come out and admit to himself or the public that he did do this to Rihanna, instead he keeps saying that he doesn’t remember and that he doesn’t want to talk about it and that he doesn’t want to say what provoked it because he doesn’t want to speak of Rihanna (in other words, basically blaming her as you are, demigod). I think he should refrain from serious relationships until he gets control of his emotions and stop blaming others. I think he deserved a harsher punishment than what he received…which would include some jail time, and that his fellow inmates should have had THE OPTION to choose to punish or not in their own “prison fashion”.

  20. mandee • September 13, 2009 @ 6:43 PM

    i completely agree with you here nancy !!!

  21. Jo-Anne • September 13, 2009 @ 7:19 PM

    I disagree with Nancy…

  22. demigod • September 13, 2009 @ 7:49 PM

    Well, SOME do lack parenting skills..
    Seriously Nance, get a clue re these two.

  23. Nancy • September 13, 2009 @ 11:40 PM

    “Get a clue” regarding yourself, demigod. I agree that some people do lack parenting skills. I’ll go one step further even and say that alot of people lack parenting skills. We parents basically learn as we go. Children don’t come with instruction manuals and are non-refundable, if you will. They are the greatest gift that life has to offer but at times can be very unruly and make one feel overwhelmed as a parent BUT I’ve seen some really great loving, caring, respectable and attentive parents raise children who become irresponsible, disrespectful, selfish human beings.

    Jo-WAnne: I could care less but, you’re still in denial.

  24. demigod • September 14, 2009 @ 1:16 AM

    Gawd, enough about children already, and how they’re the center of your universe. ‘The greatest gift life has to offer’? Says who? Oh right, a mom.
    I’m personally fed up with the number of articles on celebs popping/adopting babies.

  25. gypsy • September 14, 2009 @ 2:02 AM

    Joanne When you come back from the twilight zone that your existing in,perhaps you’ll understand about the real world! Until then you just keep working on your own backyard,before you talk smack about anyone Else’s!!!!

  26. gypsy • September 14, 2009 @ 3:57 AM

    Demig Are you actually serious about the culture of trash statement? I suggest you take a look around at all the different cultures in the world,they all have that certain element of what you call trash in them.The blacks don’t corner the market on that behaviour!!You talk of respect,that is something that is LEARNED and EARNED by another.Dare I suggest you reread some of your own comment’s such as LOW-LIFE LOOSER,OR SHE WANTS TO GET WITH SOMEONE among many others you have made!!!NOT SOMETHING A GOOD PARENT WOULD TEACH THEIR CHILD IS IT!!!The difference between you and I are , I don’t blame your parents for your BEHAVIOUR, AS YOU ARE A ADULT and responsible for your own actions and comment’s.As I also, as a adult am responsible for my own actions and comment’s. I don’t consider them a reflection on my upbringing!!I thank GOD that I’m not a narrow-minded,pompous ass that can’t accept other peoples comments for what they are, and not for what I’d like them to be.That is except for joannes,she’s just plain zoned out, she may come up for air and see the light, but I highly doubt it!! I still believe you have major woman issues to deal with,or not as that is your choice.

  27. demigod • September 14, 2009 @ 5:07 AM

    I don’t need to be lectured by you, gyp. Nor ‘reread’ anything I’ve posted..who are you, Nancy? Like I give a rat’s a$$ what you think.
    ??? Um no, I wouldn’t teach my kids to be low-life losers who repeatedly call the cops on domestic abuse cases.
    Save your ‘respect’ speech to people like Chris/Rihanna who haven’t learned/earned it.
    I call things the way I see it. I look at facts,stats,reports, and am a keen observer.
    Enlighten me..what women issues do I have? I’m not married w/kids? lol

  28. mandee • September 14, 2009 @ 7:51 AM

    hmmm, did anyone ever stop to think that demigod may actually be a WOMAN? i dont think we ever actually found out if he/she is a he/she. 😛

  29. Nancy • September 14, 2009 @ 8:43 AM

    Demigod, Sept. 14 1:16 AM:

    Just wait until you have one of your own.

    Mandee, Sept. 14 7:51 AM: He/she said he/she was a he…”hehe”, LMFAO!

    Gypsy: Are you me? LOL. You and I agree so we must be one and the same, right?

    Demigod, Sept. 14 5:07 AM: “…who are you, Nancy?” Now THAT is hysterically funny! Accusing people of being me or me them but yet, condemn me for accusing you and your ‘buds’ of the same. That’s the way things seem to roll on here with your troop…you guys can do it but the rest of us can’t…ie: swearing – fine for you guys to say…until Gypsy or Nancy say it, then it’s “potty mouth”; name calling – again, fine for you guys to do but, when someone else does…all hell to pay!

  30. Jo-Anne • September 14, 2009 @ 11:37 AM

    if I have to re-read your posts d.g., I’ll survive…just pls don’t ask me to re-read gyp’s or nan’s…shades of Prison Break torture cell…hahahaha

  31. Nancy • September 14, 2009 @ 11:43 AM

    No one ever “asks” you, Jo-WAnne….you just stick your big freaking brown nose in there anyways. Then complain that you never start anything. Hahaha. How true!

  32. Nancy • September 14, 2009 @ 11:43 AM

    You’re the biggest SD of us all!

  33. gypsy • September 14, 2009 @ 1:30 PM

    Demig If you had continued to read the rest of the comments,you would have learned that the nosey-neighbours were the looser-lowlifes that called the police,and not the person who was involved in the domestic dispute,and when the cop’s showed up that person told them she had fallen down the stairs.THAT DOES NOT MAKE HER A RAT,as you suggested.Nor a keen observer as you stated, as for your woman issues they are yours to deal with!!!!!!!!!!!

  34. demigod • September 15, 2009 @ 3:54 AM

    Nance, you ditz..I wasn’t accusing gyp of being you! I meant that as a comparison, as you ALWAYS tell people to ‘reread’ their own comments. When will you ever get anything straight??

    Wait until I have kids of my own?? When did I ever give you the impression I WANT any?! Not for me, wouldn’t want that responsibility. I value the little things in life like freedom, peace of mind, and living my life for myself. But knowing you, you’d probably interpret that as me having woman issues, like gyp! Small-minded fools..

  35. Nancy • September 15, 2009 @ 9:26 AM

    Well demigod, it would seem that you are the “ditz” here. I don’t “ALWAYS tell people to ‘reread’ their own comments”….I tell them to re-read MY comments because they always seem to jump to conclusions and say that I said things that I never did! I don’t have to tell them to reread their OWN comments because I’ll paste the proof for them myself! So, “when will you ever get anything straight?” You have serious problems and the sooner you realize that, the sooner you can get help. In the meantime though, I think it’s a great idea that you DON’T reproduce! This world is ‘troubled’ enough without little sexist dummigod’s, LMFAO! So, seeing as you “know” me so well (or so you think…thought I saw smoke in the sky), I interpret you as being sexist yes; having “woman issues” yes…stemming from your relationship or lack thereof, with your mother; also, selfishness…. How’s that interpretation from a “small-minded fool”? Hahaha.

  36. Jo-Anne • September 15, 2009 @ 1:24 PM

    feel flattered, d.g., hahaha….yours is the first commentary she frantically zeroed in on today to anxiously await your reponse…

    I guess your much touted he-man vibe is “confusing” the vehemently “single” soul…

    haha

  37. Nancy • September 15, 2009 @ 7:04 PM

    Ah well, don’t feel too flattered now. There were no new articles to make comments on at that time this morning…you sound jealous, Jo-WAnne..? LMAO. What else is new? No surprise there!

  38. demigod • September 16, 2009 @ 3:15 AM

    Yea Nance, I’m a broken shell-of-a-man..pls offer your guidance and worldly wisdom to help me see the light..
    Selfish? I show girls a good time 😉

  39. demigod • September 16, 2009 @ 3:16 AM

    Jo, I’m flattered she still thinks of me as ‘sexiest’ 🙂

  40. Jo-Anne • September 16, 2009 @ 8:15 AM

    hahahhahaha d.g.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  41. gypsy • September 16, 2009 @ 5:52 PM

    Demig your comment Sept.14 at5.07am
    Your statement, of fact’s,stat,s,keen observer.If that was true you would not have misconstrued my comment on Sept.14 at3.57am as I did not TELL you to reread.TELL (meaning) is to give instructions to OR direct(person)My wording was I SUGGEST, (meaning) refer to the calling of something to mind,as a result of an association of idea’s.Perhaps next comment you should pick up dict,as your pet joanne, likes to tell others to do, and you wouldn’t POST like such a f@@king GOOF.I do believe your pet rat jo had cornered that market, with her degree in shades of Prison break torture cell,very fitting to your standards jo!!!The colouring suits you both.

  42. Nancy • September 16, 2009 @ 10:51 PM

    LMFAO Gypsy, you crack me up!! I’m glad someone else knows the TRUE meaning of that word, haha. Suits him perfectly!


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